I have a very basic question and an anonymous chat board seems like a reasonable forum to raise it.
Did anyone on here grow up in a home that provided them with a genuine sense of unconditional love and security?
If so,
(a) were there any key moments in your childhood that helped to cement that feeling, and
(b) were there any negative consequences to that sense of love and security?
Just for background, we have a little boy and it's very important to me that he grows up feeling secure and loved.
I had a difficult relationship with my parents. As a consequence I don't have a good sense of whether other people actually do grow up with a genuine sense of unconditional love and security, or whether that is just something that we see on TV. That probably sounds like a stupid thing to admit, but whenever I hear people talk about having a great relationship with one of their parents I just assume that they are being polite (i.e. lying).
Anyway, thoughts would be appreciated!
Thanks,
CB
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CityBoy1984 · 23/10/2016 20:55
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