I have known this family for approx 10 yrs( they are ok people- IYKWIM.) just an average ordinary family- Mum, Dad and 2DDs aged 10 and 13yrs. Every Thursday evening I take my DD3 swimming and this family are there, usually its just the Mum and 2DDs(the youngest one has lessons too!) To cut a long story short is that they are sooooooo nice to each other, I have never seen the eldest DD strop or moan, they just sit around talking and every now and then you hear a laugh. The eldest is prepared to help the younger child etc. Its lovely to watch.
What happens in my house is all 3DDs fight, argue and strop even thou we have rules about not behaving like that in public. My dd who is almost 13 refuses to come with me and if I do make or she relents she is an absolute nightmare- what am I doing wrong? We are as I would describe to anyone that we are an average family, tell our dDs off when necessary, encourage homework,praise the good, not smack etc, so why cant my DDs behave like this??????
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Im so jealous it really really hurts!
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fishpie · 08/02/2007 20:49
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