Ds is now 2.4 and has always been independant and confident. He has spent a lot of time with family members and so is used to spending lots of time with various carers.
But he has never really expressed a preference for me ever. Its not just that he runs excitedly to other people and not me, he sees me more and so I know that is to be expected. But if he cries he'll go to anyone - me, dp, gps etc. If he's scared or upset or ill or whatever.
It sometimes feels like I'm the one who stayed up all night with him when he had colic, I'm the one who gave birth to him, I'm the one who is his MUMMY and it seems like I'm not special to him.
My mum thinks this is all in my head to a certain extent and that he is just a confident, sociable child. And I know I should be grateful that I don't have any problems with him and I am.
sorry that is self-indulgent I know but sometimes it hurts. He loves me I know, but no more than say granma who he sees a couple of times a week. And yes I am glad that it makes everything easier and that he is able of having so many close relationships with family but...
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does anyone else feel like this?
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TheArmadillo · 07/02/2007 23:01
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