DD will be 2 in a few months, and so far we have got off very lightly with any challenging behaviour. She is quite cheeky and finds it very funny to do things which she knows are 'naughty' or not allowed (though we don't tend to use that word) for example throwing things on the ground or running away when we are trying to get her dressed.
What I am struggling with is how to set clear boundaries so she knows what behaviour is expected of her (understanding that what I can reasonably expect from a child her age is going to be limited). She enjoys these 'games' so much that it's hard not to engage with her in the game and laugh along, and I would rather resolve things playfully if I can, but there are times when things need to be done quickly and I am worried I am confusing her by this behaviour being ok sometimes but not others? If that makes sense? Doesn't help that I am 13 weeks pregnant so already looking ahead to a time when I will be a lot less physically capable of chasing after her armed with a t-shirt!
Am I overthinking this? On the one hand she does seem to know to an extent what behaviour is and isn't ok as that is the whole basis for her cheeky games, but on the other hand I can see how confusing it would be for her if my reaction is not consistent. Any thoughts on navigating this?
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Toddler behaviour. Struggling to know when to let it go.
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Penguin13 · 21/09/2016 15:49
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