So I don't have a mother/daughter relationship with my mum provides financially but not emotionally she just sits in front of the TV after work. I ask her how work was and she'll answer, and she'll answer ask how mine was and the convo ends there. She was away for 3 weeks and the first thing she said when she came back was do your chores I am 27 and I would thought by now we could have a relationship but no we don't. I tried to invite her out for Chinese and she said stop wasting your money on fast food and I said we could go together and she told me she was busy.
Her brother and sister my aunt and uncle have children who also complain their parents are completely disengaged and no nothing about our generation and what goes on in your lives.
My blood boils every-time I think about this but during the first year of sixth form which is education between 16-18 I had a mental breakdown when I was 17, the first time she noticed I was quite unwell she cried on the bus. It got worse and lasted about 2 months of me walking around the streets and going into school and sitting around because I wasn't getting the help I needed and my friends said they didn't know what to do which at 17 is understandable. At night time I would often go to this girls house from school because I was mentally unwell and not getting help, she ended up getting annoyed and my mum new I was leaving the house and it makes me think she is irresponsible and when anything else happens I can't trust her.
My friends dad called her and told her to take me to the hospital so she did and then took me home. And she got a call from my friends parents telling them to pick me up from their place and she did but did nothing more when we went home.
So that was 2007 and this is 2016. I was talking to her about the incident I said to her "How come you didn't take me to the hospital?" She said I was in such a trance that I hard to control and she said do you know you were going to your friends house and they said no this is wrong. So I feel like she is blaming me for my actions. She will not take responsibility whatsoever.
So mothers out there what do you think?
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herohayley09 · 26/08/2016 11:29
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