How do people honestly feel about parents telling their kids to "shut up"?
I have relatives that tell their kids to shut up, they're ages 20 months to eight and was at a playgroup today and a parent was telling their almost two year to shut up. My husband once told our dd at almost 14 months to shut up as she was fussing at breakfast in the pub and I called him up there and then, a few people probably heard as it was busy and I did do it in front of my daughter. I made it absolutely clear he was never to speak to her like that again, so you can see how I feel towards those words, but are they honestly not that bad? Is it the norm and I've just crazily sensitive to it?
I know we all lose our rag sometimes and say things we don't mean and if you're in the middle of it all it can be hard to think straight. However it seems like a perfectly reasonable command amongst parents now, maybe my connotations to the words are outdated (I do remember clearly a teacher calling up some girls about the use of shut up and saying it was disrespectful when I was younger so that's maybe we're it's come from).
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SpeckledFrog2014 · 08/07/2016 13:53
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