Not sure what has happened to me after being adamant for the past 3.5 years there would be no DC2 and thinking of all the pros of having one child I am now thinking wistfully how nice it might be to have another baby, watch another toddler grow up and generally add another little person to our family. I also think DD would love a sibling.
DH is open to the idea but would like to wait about 18 months before we start trying so DD could easily be nearly 6 or older by the time a second came along. Would that even work ? I am 27 now so we do have time on our side. I've also retrained since having DD and would hopefully have a job by the time DC2 came along and ideally would go back to that full time / part time afte maternity. I'm hoping this might alleviate some of what I found so hard about having DD - I don't think I'm particularly great at the whole SAHM thing ?
As DD would be older I guess they wouldn't play together as much but
potentially could still have a strong bond? I don't even know why I'm thinking like this now - I had an awful birth, didn't cope at all well with baby stage and even now find being a SAHM to three year old trying. But it's like something in me knows that despite all of this another child would be lovely. I like the idea of having two older children in the future ?
Anyone been in a similar muddle ? What did you do?
Sorry for the ramble. I'm a bit surprised I feel like this to be honest we were so set on sticking at one.
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Needmorewine · 17/06/2016 18:40
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