Hello
I'm not very confident dealing with other children so I'd really appreciate some advice from more experienced parents. I'm friends with a really nice lady as part of a wider group, our DCs are nearly 3. Her DC has always been on the normal end of pushy, but has recently got a lot worse. Lots of pushing of others (particularly when he thinks adults aren't looking) and has started doing things like trapping my DC by physically hurting him.
My DC is very reticent and finds it difficult to join in groups at the best of times. To my knowledge he's never hit or pushed, but fully aware I may have missed it and that this can change!
For various reasons they're both going through a really rough time so I don't want to make things harder for them, but I also want to protect my DC who gets discouraged really easily. The mum does intervene when she sees stuff but we have younger ones too and she doesn't have eyes in the back of her head.
So - does anyone have suggestions for the kind of things I can say to him to intervene when I need to firmly but fairly? The group is generally ok with each other reprimanding others DCs within reason.
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How to support friend but protect my DC too?!
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Binkybix · 14/05/2016 20:20
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