How do you know when your ready

[na5ima]

Hi everyone.

I have a 9 half month baby and his my first.

I feel like I'm ready to have another baby but the horror stories I have heard from other mums about 1 year old I don't fancy having a baby and dealing with a toddler with tantrum.

My hubby doesn't mind having another but he thinks about the costs and we just can't afford 2 lots of child care as I will have to go back to work (have debt) My hubby can manage 1 lots of payments but not 2..

It's all sooo confusing- has anyone felt this way..