Hi There, single dad here in desperate need of help. My 12 year old DD, who has previously had a boyfriend, has suddenly announced that she is pansexual and in love with a 15 year old girl who dresses as a boy, calls herself a boy and describes herself as transgender and planning to have a female to male sex change as soon as she is old enough ! I've tried discussing this with DD, warning her of the problems she will create for herself at school and in life etc if she goes down this route, but I just can't get through to her.
I couldn't help but feel that she is being manipulated by the older girl taking advantage of a confused tween, and then I found out that she is hanging around with four other girls who call themselves pansexual and one lesbian who are all two to three years older than her. They claim that they only mean a pansexual relationship which is closer than friends, but doesn't include sex. When I probed further, my DD said that she had the same feelings for the transgender girl that she had for her old boyfriend, and that she may want to kiss her.What can I do ? Should I ban her from hanging around with this crowd to give her time and space to make up her own mind about what her sexuality is without peer pressure from these existing friends. Is this sort of thing common with tweens? Has anyone else been in a similar position and dealt with it successfully. Please help me because I feel I'm losing my daughter who is all I have in the world.
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geordieone · 28/03/2016 12:19
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