Hi
I have got myself in to a situation. I am currently 23 weeks pregnant and don't know who the father is, it's between two men. Neither of them knows I'm pregnant and I want it to stay that way at the moment as I don't want to cause any drama or worry before it can be solved.
I was seeing man A, sort of in a non serious relationship way. We where good for months and progressively things got worse and was then less serious between us. I saw him and we had sex and then two days after I had sex with someone else who I had previously had sex with and went on dates with years ago but this time it was just a one time thing.
I understand what I have done is wrong but I'm standing up to my mistakes. I have prepared myself for the fact I might be this babies only parent and I have no expectations of either of them jumping up at the idea of being a dad (as this would be both of theirs first time if they are her dad)
I was wondering if I am able to take an ethnicity Dna test on my daughter prior to contacting them. I don't want to contact both and have to Dna test both I would rather take the ethncity Dna test then know who the most probable one is then Dna test them to confirm with out involving the other one.
I am white and English 100% Full.
Man A's mum is mixed race (half Jamaican half white) and his dad is full Jamacian. So he is Jamacian, but biologically he's quarter white.
Man B is full Nigerian and both parents are originally from Nigeria.
Either way my daughter will be half black so impossible to say with skin colour. So is it logical to think one of these tests may lead me to my answer before contacting them?
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Ethnicity Dna test on newborn?
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Emmaheathrow · 19/03/2016 08:48
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