I have a child minder 3 days of the week whilst I work part time, today I had a day off but decided to let him go as I would have to pay for it regardless
My sons dad lives in London and I live in Bournemouth so quite a distance, today he was coming down to visit family and was going to pick our son up at 4 from my house and go to the park and for some dinner.
I wasn't checking my phone as was cleaning the house but when I did had about 3 missed calls from him. I then checked my texts and there was one from the childminder saying "Austins dad has shown up planning on taking him to the park and for some lunch, I've let him go early and he says he will be dropping him off around tea time"
When I dropped our son off he was a bit tearful and said "don't worry you're going out with daddy later" so she did know he was seeing his dad. My point is she has never met his dad, she is clueless to what he looks like and I never ever gave her the go ahead for anyone else to collect him aside from my mum and me.
Am I over reacting? I'm really angry about this and I now feel my trust has been stamped over even though no harm has been done as I have called his dad and he is fine. But my point is it could have been a stranger as she has never met this man!
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Childminder let son go with his dad, not happy
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Jade7392 · 01/03/2016 10:35
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