Ds is 8 and has been having a bit of a problem at school being told off for things that have been misinterpreted
Eg two boys are holding his hands and making him hit one of them. Teacher turns round and they tell teacher he's been hitting
Eg one boy sitting on top of his friend who ds believes wants the other boy to get off so tries to push him off - teacher sees ds and he gets told off
Eg boy is poking him in the back - ds turns round to say stop and the boy cries out and tells teacher ds hit him
Now I know ds and he hates rough play and will avoid. I've observed him with his friends enough times to know he is unlikely to be instigating these things. A few times another parent has commented 'oh I hear poor ds got in trouble for xx when it was other boy'
He is the same with his sister - he will say mean things and hide her toys but he never hits - even when she is hitting him. He does give back chat and is a chatterbox so when he is told off for things like that I can totally believe it!
The problem is that he feels the teachers think he is a bully and he is not wanting to go to school. He has also become a bit nervy recently and tries to stay on the outskirts
I obviously support the school but I'm not sure how to advise ds on how to overcome this. He often gets told off because the others have told on him (it is the same 3 or 4 boys) but he is unwilling to tell on them in the first place iyswim
Sorry this is all a bit of a stream of consciousness - I hope it makes sense! I hate seeing him unhappy! Wwyd!
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BYOSnowman · 11/02/2016 21:51
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