I have two children, DS1 (3.5) and DS2 (3 weeks). Currently DS2 is very much like I remember DS1 being - he doesn't want to sleep except in my arms. Nights are not so bad, he usually does one 2-3 hour stretch in his crib and cosleeps for the rest of the night. But daytime is challenging. He is EBF and wants to feed to sleep, but then cries as soon as he's put down, so I seem to spend my days trapped in a cycle of feeding an increasingly tired & grumpy baby, and trying to put him down. Lots of crying, and no time for me to play with poor DS1, who is being so good with the baby but is obviously unsettled by his arrival. I remember DS1 being exactly the same, and I struggled to put him down for naps until he was about 6 months. I remember the key for him was to stop feeding him to sleep, and we had to go through a bit of crying (nothing major - 5-10 mins of whinging at nap time). Clearly, DS2 is far too young got that. But how do people get though this? Other than just keeping him in a sling all day?!
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