Hi all,
New to mumsnet but need a bit of advice. I go back to work full time in two months, my little girl will be about 8 months old by then. I have found an amazing childminder but I can't help feel guilty that I can't even drop one day a week of work. I put a request in for flexible working and it was declined, I've managed to secure another position bringing me closer to home but it will only save an hour a day.
Every single one of my friends have all gone back part time and keep saying they couldn't imagine going back full time and letting someone else bring their child up. I feel like being a parent is just one massive guilt trip from all these "perfect" mothers. I'm probably being a little unreasonable but I suppose I just wanted to hear from anyone in the same position? Or maybe anyone who has gone back to work full time, does it work? And am I a bad mother for putting my daughter in full time child care?! Of course I want what's best for her and that's a roof over our head and a good work ethic, my partner works away so it's mainly down to be Monday-Friday
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Guilt at working full time
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Amziix · 06/02/2016 17:03
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