Just name changed as I've been posting a bit lately and don't want to out myself.
I have an almost 3 year old DD who is cute, funny, bright, loving, a bit of a drama llama, and prone to a spectacular screaming fit on occasion. She's the only person I've ever known to actually hop with rage.
Just lately she's taken to saying no to things she actually does want, and then when you say 'oh, ok then' she bursts into tears and says yes she does want it.
It's got to the point that she's doing it all the time and we feel it's becoming quite a controlling behaviour.
We're wondering about just taking her at her first answer in the hope she'll cop on and stop doing it. Hopping tantrums will ensue but we're keen not to let her start ruling us!
It's come at the same time as other similarly testing behaviour. For example she's started waking around midnight with all kinds of spurious claims 'I need a poo' (which she then doesn't) or a drink, or a specific teddy, etc etc etc. She's in bed crying as I type because after she'd had a drink and a cuddle, I drew the line at searching around for the teddy she wanted at midnight.
Does it sound worth digging our heels in? Or just one of those things that will pass?
All advise welcome! I'm finding it hard to strike a balance between picking too many battles and letting her get away with too much!
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ListenWithYourNose · 30/01/2016 00:44
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