DS is 17 months, in the baby room at nursery (up to 18 months in his room) he goes 2 days per week.
Last month he was bitten twice in one day and also badly scratched all by the same child (its left a faint scar) Marks from bites were still there 5 days later. Proper big bites, loads of teeth marks, bruising etc. Also unprovoked I should add.
Obviously wasn't happy, spoke to nursery, they were very apologetic. Kids bite. I get that, but this wasn't a little nip, this was like jaws had got hold of him.
Anyway, action plan in place to keep a closer eye on the biter. Fine. I was ok with that.
Fast forward to this week, he came home with another bad bite. Same kid. Again, pretty much unprovoked. This was Monday, still marks and bruising today.
I don't really know what to do, I feel so awful that I've left him there and he's getting hurt. I know kids bite and whack each other and I fully expect that, and I'm sure one day it'll be my DS whacking someone. But these bites aren't little nips, they look really painful.
They said there is an action plan in place to prevent incidents but it's clearly not working if he's getting bitten still, do I ask to see the action plan?
I know it's hard to stop such little ones from certain behaviour but I can't have my little boy being hurt whilst this other one grows out of this behaviour.
Any advice?
I would like to add as a side note that my DS should be moving out of this room next month but as he is having problems with his walking, he'll be kept in the baby room until he is more confident and so he doesn't get trampled on by the bigger toddlers so he's not escaping confinement with the biter anytime soon!
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How many bites from another child whilst at nursery is too many?
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Ilovenannyplum · 27/01/2016 19:03
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