Hi - I have a slightly awkward first post, and would be grateful for your commentary;
I am a single dad andmy 3 children live with (only) me for half of their time (boys 15 & 12 and a girl, 3 1/2). The boys have a different mother to my daughter. I have two related questions.
The first is that my daughter likes sleeping in my bed (as did the boys when they were her age). I wait for her to fall asleep in her own room after story-time but she invariably comes and climbs into my bed in the middle of the night. We are coming to the point when of course that's not going to be alright any more and I am wondering what strategies I might adopt, short of walking her back to her room each time when crawls into my bed?
The second, related issue revolves around bodies in general. Up to now I haven't had any issue with her seeing me step out of the shower for example, or the boys brushing their teeth while she is in the bath - my girl's mother doesn't think that any form of nakedness of any description is allowable, I disagree, because the boys are her (half) brothers and she is only just short of 4, but I can't quite see where 'we're family' ends and where boundaries need to begin. My daughter knows that there are mechanical differences between boys and girls and has the predictable euphemisms.....
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ESSAH71 · 13/01/2016 11:56
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