I have two DSs (3yo and 9mo), and I'm starting to feel the pressure of life with two children now, and I'm having a bit of a wobble. Just wondered if someone could give me a little pep talk?!
DH and I work full-time, both DSs are at nursery, and our day is pretty full-on in terms of getting to work on time, getting home to get the boys to bed at a semi-decent hour, followed by preparing everything again for the morning. There's no slack in the schedule. Our parents have always helped out with childcare on an ad hoc basis when they can, but they all have increasing health problems, so I'm not sure how much longer that will continue, and I'm also frustrated that I don't have time to be able to help them more. And now that we're paying for childcare for both boys, we're feeling the strain financially for the first time too.
Basically, I'm feeling squeezed on all sides - time, money, support, annual leave - and although we're doing OK, I feel like that OK-ness is pretty precarious! I've no reason to complain - I have a wonderful DH, two happy healthy boys, a nice home, a nice job and lovely supportive boss. I'm just suddenly feeling as if it would only take one small thing to go wrong for the wheels to totally come off, and I don't like feeling that vulnerable. I'm putting it down partly to January blues, but I think it is partly about the health problems my parents have. Even if I've not needed their help, I've always felt reassured knowing I could always ask if I needed to.
Is this all pretty run-of-the-mill for everyone?
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Shelduck · 08/01/2016 08:51
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