We're really lucky to have both sets of grandparents visit fortnightly. My in-laws are youngish, healthy, high energy, and spend a whole day playing exciting games and taking my boys on long, multiple vehicle bus trips, which they love. My parents are older, less good health, generally more geriatric and definitely not so good with children. My mum reads to the boys while my dad helps with a bit of housework.
My kids are completely obsessed with my in-laws; they talk about them constantly, make them cards, presents and everything of interest is 'to show Grandad and Granny'. With my parents - not. The 6 y.o. made my mum a birthday card featuring a picture of my mother in law! DS1 often says, "I hate Grandpa and Nanna" and tells me he hates them coming. When asked, it's because they don't do such fun things as my in-laws do.
Is there any way of teaching kids to be more pleasant about it? The 3 y.o. is now copying, and they both have a strop every time I say my parents are coming. It's not my parents' fault that they're old, boring and less good with kids! I don't expect the boys to enjoy both visits equally, but I would like to get DS1 to stop telling everyone he hates my parents because they're not so fun.
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AngelDog · 26/11/2015 21:02
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