I'm quite new - and this is my first post. Its about only children. I have an only DS - just 4. It's not through choice really but I am coming to terms with it just about and in myself feel content with DS, feel stretched enough with him and DS is happy.
Finding it really hard dealing with other people's reactions to him being an only. Each time it gets to me that bit more and I feel so guilty and makes me feel that every 'bad' thing he does is due to him being an only. ie a friend came with her daughter aged 3 and baby son 5 months and ds was stand-offish at first, my friend kept on about DS being an only. Yet her DD didnt seem that interested in playing with DS in any case.
Another friend goes on about isnt it lonely for DS at christmas being the only child.
DH and I spend loads of time with DS, yet even there, this same friend commented that it's not good for DS. We do try really hard to get him to see his friends too, but obviously he spends more time with us as a family.
Dont know what I mean to say really except I dont know how to deal with other people's reactions to ds being an only child. Especially when we dont know anyone else with an only child.
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dealing with other people's reactions about having an only child
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debido · 09/12/2006 12:20
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