So the health visitor came today for a 4 month check and has really scared me.
My daughter seems to be developing normally and has had her 8 week check and an earlier discharge check from the hospital by a paediatrician.
She's sitting up (with assistance), grabbing toys etc and is very alert. She has a slight squint which the doctor told me to come back with if its still there in a month.
But the HV started talking about her squint being due to a flat bridge of her nose and then commenting on the fact that she sticks her tongue out a lot.
She then asked about her smiling and I said offhand that she smiles at me and her dad but isn't massively smiley with strangers. She does sometimes smile at strangers but usually reserves smiles for people she recognises.
She's just rung me 6 hours later to tell me I need to get a doctor to properly review her and she's referred her as she's concerned about her squint / tongue and the fact I said she didn't smile (which I didn't say). At least I think this is the reason - she doesn't actually make a huge amount of sense and was just talking without really saying anything.
I think she's hinting at concerns of Down syndrome with the tongue and nasal bridge comments but she has no other markers and I had the harmony test which said it was less than 1 in 10,000 chance. Plus no doctor had mentioned this and she was even in NICU for a night so surely they would have said something?
Am really freaking out. Help!
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MissTwister · 03/11/2015 17:51
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