My 13 year old has recently been very down. She cries at school and doesn't know why. She has no close friends and wishes she could have a best friend like she used to have. Though i would have never called that girl a best friend, she invited a load of girls to her birthday, except my DD! saying she wanted different girls to come along.
Today she said she had an awful day at school and that she cried. She said she spoke to someone but they didn't really help. One girl she does hang with has a best friend of her own and tends to leave my DD out. She sits on her own a lot drawing. She is a very talented artist and loves Sonic the hedgehog, she tends to draw a lot of sonic characters and makes up her own. There are no art clubs at her school either. They all tend to be sporty clubs and my DD isn't into sport at all.
My DD stays in a lot as well on her computer, we have no family close by apart from my husband's nan. I suffer with depression as does my husband, though we never show it. My DD also says random kids come up to her and say nasty stuff though she won't tell me what they say. i feel so helpless sad
I have already taken her to the doctors as I asked about her going on the pill as her periods are very heavy and painful. She gets more down when they are due to start. The doctor said to bring her back in a month or so as he didn't want to rush putting her on the pill, but i think she should now.
I think her social skills are not too good, she doesn't really know how to join in and tends to hang back. I am thinking of going to the school to speak to someone. I can't let this go on, she seems to be slowly getting worse, she has even said she doesn't want to go to school tomorrow! She was enjoying her school as well to start with. If anyone can offer any good advice please do I am so worried for her.
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Is my 13 year old daughter depressed?
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nuttygirl41 · 08/10/2015 21:21
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