I have an 8 month old daughter. She's my second baby, dd1 is 3.
She's so grumpy ALL the time. She has been like this since she was born. I keep thinking it'll get better but it never does.
When she was tiny she had bad colic and silent reflux so she would scream all day every day , especially when feeding and feeding took 2 hours every bottle.
I kept thinking when she got past that it would get better and then when she got mobile it would be better but it's not.
She can crawl a bit but she just gets frustrated and angry and screams. She screams if I put her down and puts her arms up shouting mum but if I lift her she screams and throws herself out of my arms. If I try and sit with her she kicks and screams and rages but if I then put her down she breaks her heart.
She hates he jumperoo, hates her car seat, hates being in the pram. The only time she seems a bit more calm is when I wear her in the baby carrier but only if I'm constantly moving.
I'm exhausted, worn down and neglecting my dd1 because I'm constantly trying to stop dd2 from crying.
I've ended up just leaving her to cry because it doesn't matter if I lift her or not. At least when she's on the floor she's not knocking lumps out of me.
She can be really sweet and affectionate at times but if I don't change her activity every3 mins she just goes nuts. I love her but I'm starting to really regret having a second child as I just don't know what she wants or how to please her and it's coming between dd1 and I. Dd1 dotes on her but she's starting to really resent her now. She's started asking if we can get a new baby that doesn't screech all the time.
I have no idea what to do anymore.
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Scattymum101 · 06/10/2015 16:08
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