This rears its head periodically in our family. My Mum and Dad live close and we are close, they have always been around if I've needed anything and I am very appreciative of that.
However, every now and then they will make a decision that's really not their place to make or I feel they have gone behind my back with a decision or like last night I make a decision and tell them what and why and they basically tell me I'm wrong and make me doubt my judgement as a parent and make me second guess myself.
To make matters worse, the kids stepdad, Steve, who is normally laid back ends up getting upset because we are trying to make these decisions together but when my parents do this he feels like they are interfering because they think were not making wise choices, this makes him feel bad but doesn't feel he can talk to them about it because they're my parents, so I end up stuck in the middle and feel torn between the kids, my parents and my partner.
I haven't really tried to talk to them about how I feel because I am so appreciative and don't want to come across as 'butt out you're interfering' because I do want them to be involved.... just not take over!
I feel so exasperated by it all, any advice?
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nursenicole83 · 05/10/2015 11:19
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