DD1 will be three in October and for the past few weeks, has been really trying my patience. She has also started wanting to do EVERYTHING herself, especially things like getting dressed/undressed, choosing her clothes etc. I understand that this is a normal part of development and that it's a positive thing. We do encourage her to be independent. but woe betide either me or DP if we accidentally remove her vest for her at bath time.
I think the dreaded 'threenager' stage is upon us and I've come to realize that I really am quite clueless on how to deal with it. Her tantrums have become more frequent, literally anything that doesn't or can't go her way she will at best have a whine about it and at worst will have a complete screaming meltdown which can include jumping/foot stamping, throwing, occasionally hitting.
Any tips will be appreciated, even reassurance that this stage is normal would be great. Currently considering starting the naughty step. We've always done a mix of getting down to her level and talking sternly, counting to 3 and then concequences i.e 'if you don't stop jumping on the sofa I am going to turn cbeebies' off then following through if she doesn't listen - which of course results in a tantrum, and also ignoring and waiting for the tantrum to pass if efforts to calm her aren't working. Seems to have worked pretty well up until now but I'mm worried we're not doing enough now in the 'discipline' department.
She is an absolute angel at pre-school and for her grandparents when they look after her occasionally, it just seems to be me and DP she gets like this for.
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imwithspud · 30/09/2015 14:37
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