Ds1 is 8, and has always been quite reserved. Not totally shy, but never really confident with a group, or when he's in the spotlight.
He's always had one or two friends each school year, (our primary makes 3 mix classes out of each two school years, but changes the mix each year). As a result, he's moved classes, not had the same friends in the classroom and struggled to keep up with the other friends out of class.
He's also been up against a rather dominant boy in his class, who is finally in a different class this year. The thing is, he gets really nervous going into school in the morning. He is part of a small group of friends, but feels shy walking up to them and saying hello in the mornings. He has cried a bit a couple of days, when he's gone over and been ignored (not intentionally, they've just not noticed him, so I've tried to encourage him to speak up and say hello cheerily etc). He does football, rugby and swimming classes out of school, and has just started extra curricular music lessons in school. I've spoken to his teacher who said he's noticed ds is nervous in class at times. Ds says he's not very good at rugby compared to the other boys (the others joined in 2s or 3s and tend to pass to their friends, the coach is aware of this and trying to reduce it).
I'm just wondering if anybody has any tips on how to help build up his confidence, and help him believe in his abilities a bit more? Dh works long hours, but does lots with him on the weekend. DS is generally happy at home, well behaved , fun.
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How can I help ds1 (8) improve his confidence?
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daisydalrymple · 29/09/2015 13:37
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