Is it necessary to always invite back those who have invited you? DS is turning 4 and I am inviting back everyone who has invited him to their party in the past year. There is one family, however, that DH does not want me to invite as he doesn't like the parents.
So would it be rude not to invite them? We have some mutual friends - in fact mutual friends is the only reason I know them, I'm not friends with the parents at all - so they will know that we are having a party but it's not like a school situation where their DS will be the only kid in a class not invited.
They did invite DS to their 3-year old's party, purely out of politeness I think - but he didn't have a great time. Their son ignored my DS when he tried to hug him and say Happy Birthday and also hit him at one point. Hardly the friendship of a lifetime, is it? Still, it worries me that it's rude to the parents to not return the invitation... could be awkward next time I see them.
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Birthday invites - rude not to return invite?
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PatrickPolarBear · 23/08/2015 00:33
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