I'm probably being stupid but it's really bugging me that my 10 month old DS doesn't seem bothered that I've been away from him. I went back to work when he was 9 months and he'd been at nursery a couple of days a week getting used to it and then went 4 days. When I pick him up he wants to come to me but doesn't smile or seem happy to see me. I put it down to tiredness but felt bad about it. We decided to get a part time nanny to reduce the amount of time he had to go to nursery but when I first came home from work on a nanny day he totally ignored me at first - not even turning around at the sound of my voice for the first time in his life. He smiled and played with me eventually but I couldn't belive he wouldn't turn round to look at me even though I called his name over and over. It's never happened before! Sigh. I have to work but I feel like it's ruining my relationship with him. Will he grow out of it? I'm also pregnant with number 2. Worried that will make things even worse. When I'm home with him our relationship is lovely and he's quite clingy. He just doesn't seem to care that I've gone when I go away or that I'm back. Am I overthinking it? Thanks. X
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