So my partners parents have this dog and they beat the poor thing. So he has a short temper and will go for anyone. I gave them the chance to put the dog in a seperate room while we were here with our kids 3 and a 10 month crawling baby. The dog went for my daughter thankfully it was just her clothes that he caught. She wasn't even near the dog. She lifted her arms for my partner to pick her up. Every movement that dog is on her. I dont let my son crawl on the floor so he is limited to what he does there. It's is not fair on either of them. So i stopped going with the kids and wouldn't allow my partner to take them. I have NEVER and never would stop them from seeing their grandkids. They are welcome to come here any time they like but they don't. My partner kept saying to give them a cchance and they will leave the dog in a seperate room. So for my partners sake I did, we were there for five minutes and they got fed up of the dog barking so let him in!! I grabbed my kids and left. So put my foot down and said no chance they blew it. My partners mum has said to my face that she does not trust the dog around my kids!! His dad doesn't like coming to my house because he doesn't wsnt to see me. That's the only reason so he is missing out on his grandkids ! He seen them for half an hour on my daughters birthday in April and then the last time was boxing day when their dog went for my ddaughter. They don't like my decision and my partner supported me well so I thought. Today he has really kicked of at me as he wants us to all go up. I said no im not putting my kids at risk I have given them chances and they blew it. I am not having that dog bite one of my kids to prove my point ! So he has turned around and said that he isn't going on holiday as its putting the kids at risk ? (We are supposed to be going tomorrow) and that he isn't coming back and walked out.
Am I a bad person?
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megann93 · 28/06/2015 10:41
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