Struggling!!
My daughter is just five months old. Since she was about two months old, she has slept through the night, 12 hours straight, no bother. She has also always been a great eater. She's a lovely baby, very easy going and happy. We have been very lucky.
She outgrew her Moses basket a couple of weeks ago and so is now being put to sleep in the cot in her own room. I know this is earlier than recommended, and I really don't feel great about it (we put it off as long as possible but couldn't wait any longer) but we don't have another option really. The cot would not fit in our teeny bedroom and I don't think we can even get it out of the nursery without taking it to bits. We have decent camera monitors and we watch her very closely. We also check on her in person very regularly. I'm pretty much not sleeping right now so that I can keep an eye on her (not ideal but I'd never forgive myself if something happened because we moved her too soon).
Anyway, she just isn't settling in the cot the way she was in the basket (in her basket, she could easily put herself to sleep with her dummy and a comforter). She has started waking through the night again for feeds, which she hasnt done for ages, and she tosses and turns a lot through the night, makes a lot of noise. She gets upset if her dummy falls out and one of us will go through and put it back in (in her basket, she wouldnt notice if her dummy fell out). After these wakings it takes ages for her to fall asleep again. I stand beside the cot, hold her hand etc until she starts to drift off, but it doesn't seem to help (I don't think she really minds if I'm there or not). She's got all her snuggy toys and comforters in there (I take all but one out when she finally falls asleep), she has a wee nightlight and we go to her immediately if she gets upset or if she's lying awake for too long.
The weird thing is that she stayed down at my parents' house for a couple of nights last weekend in a travel cot, and was absolutely fine and settled in there!! That was the first time we've left her for a night (necessary wedding) and I'm actually beginning to wonder if that's having an impact on her sleep?! Is she scared we'll leave her again?!
We have started giving her a few spoonfuls of solid food before she goes to bed (she was showing various signs that she was ready for solids, but we're taking it really slowly and just starting with a few spoonfuls of fruit or veg at nights just now). She's taking the food really well (very enthusiastically!) and seems to really like it but it's not preventing the night waking which makes me think that hunger isn't really the problem here. I've been racking my brains trying to think of a reason she's not settling the same way but I can't come up with anything. Her room is warm, the house is quiet.
Is it just too much change? Is there anything I can do to make this easier for her (and for us)?!
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RoyalMaybe · 25/06/2015 03:06
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