Hi, do you think it's ever acceptable to smack a 9 year old child. My husband has told me tonight that he feels our son needs a good smack. My husband struggles with managing our son when he answers back, or sometimes when he has been rude, he has an issue with how our son eats at the table too, sometimes he uses his fingers instead of his knife and fork and tonight he flipped and said he would put all of our sons dinner in the bin, if he used his fingers again during dinner time. To be honest I'm completely shocked with how irrational my husband has reacted to this behaviour. My husband has also told me I'm too soft and that by sending him to his room to reflect when he is rude, etc, isn't big enough a punishment, although it works fairly well. I do think my husband has a power struggle and when he feels our son has pushed the boundaries, he feels powerless and loses control. He was also hit a lot as a child. I don't however agree with smacking, or any sort of physical punishment for a child, I think you can teach a child respect without using force. This evening it has caused a big atmosphere between us because it has become apparent we have very different parenting styles/views. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
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