I am at my wits end!
Dd is 14 months old and will bite for no reason and usually without you suspecting she's going to.
I tell her no, that's not nice, we don't do that with a stern voice. She giggles.
I feel hopeless, there is not much I can do to discourage her doing this, or is there?
Reason I'm writing this post is me and DD went to see a friend of mine earlier, she has a DS of 20 months.
The two of them were happily playing in the garden, we were close by watching them.
Her DS kept hugging DD. Alls well, he regularly does this when he sees her and DD usually doesn't mind but I could see she was getting a bit frustrated with him being in her way.
Said to him let's leave dd alone for two minutes and took DD inside to sort out her lunch.
I called friend in, asked if she could watch them both whilst I popped to the toilet, I was gone for maybe a minute max.
Heard crying, I came back downstairs and was told that DD had bitten her DS when he tried to hug her again.
I apologised, told DD that biting is not allowed asked friend if he was okay.
She laughed it off, kids being kids and all that.
We left after lunch, now I've received a text off her saying that DD has bruised her son and she doesn't want to see us again unless i can control my dd behaviour!
I pointed out that she was supposed to be looking after them whilst I popped to the toilet, and she knew Dd was getting frustrated with her DS hugging her all the time. Her words that Kids will be kids, and she seemed very blaise about the whole incident.
Not heard anything back off her apart from a very passive aggressive status on Facebook about parents should know how to look after their children.
My blood is boiling, most probably that I am being an unreasonable cow about this.
I need to know how you managed to successfully get your DC to stop biting, like I said she's 14 months old, I don't think there is a lot I can do about it at the moment apart from telling her no.
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GlitterTwinkleToes · 10/05/2015 17:32
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