We are having a 2nd birthday party for DS in a couple of months - about 8-10 children are coming.. Our house is already full to the brim of toddler stuff and I know that the GPs will spoil him rotten and buy him everything on the smallish list we have come up with of things he actually needs (art stuff, clothes etc - things we'd be buying anyway over the next few months) plus a load of other tat as well. So I'd much rather that kiddies just came and had fun - DS can do the present opening bit separately with family.
i assume that guests will think they should bring something, and ime sometimes people ignore the "we ask for your presence not presents" thing. What's a polite way of saying "no presents please, and I'm not just being polite here I really don't want you to bring anything"? Yes I know I could donate or regift unwanted gifts but that somehow seems unfair to the person who has gone out and spent time and money on DS. The guests are mainly new-ish "mummy friends" so while I like them we're not quite at the stage where I could just say "I do not want more stuff, however tasteful/fun/educational it is, in my house".
We only did family parties last year so I am new to this. Would you be relieved or offended if told not to bring anything?
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Birthday party - no presents please?
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Somethingwitty2015 · 06/04/2015 22:40
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