When we are going to the shops, soft play, playground etc, I feel like I know what to do as a parent. But on the times that we are at home, I am completely lost
for example, this morning, me and DC (18mo and 5yo) are home alone for 2 - 3 hours, after which time I feel I am losing my mind. I do struggle with anxiety and depression Btw.
When it was just DC1 it was easier as we could do crafts or watch something or play game maybe. But now I can't find anything to do that keeps either of them occupied - either together or separately.
I put cbeebies on but that would only amuse DC1 for maybe 1 or 2 programs, and invariably she's jumping off the sofa at the same time and DC2 doesn't watch for more than 1 or 2 minutes.
DC1 would spend a long time on the ipad happily but then I have to put her in another room otherwise DC2 is causing mayhem snatching ipad. Plus I feel like bad mum putting her on ipad and still struggle to entertain DC2.
DC1 loves crafts etc but always wants input from me which I can't give her as dc2 needs attention. Tried painting with dc1 & dc2. It lasted 3 minutes before dc2 wanted to get down and then 15 cleaning up!
I guess DC2 is more the issue.. We have loads of toys and I even do you rotation every week to keep it new and interestf (supposedly!!) but he doesn't play by himself hardly at all.
Instead he (a) tries to injure himself in any way possible, (b) destroy stuff or mess up stuff like emptying my wallet (c) whine and pull at my leg whenever I'm not interacting with him (eg. doing dc1 hair).
I feel like I'm losing my mind. Am I just a terrible mum, or selfish or stupid
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What do you actually do with a 5 yo & 1 yo at home? HELP!
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MumWithCamera · 22/03/2015 11:05
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