DS1 aged 2 and 10 months hosted his first play date today, with a friend who is the same age. I met friend's mum quite recently; we are getting to be friends but it is still in the very early stages.
DS1's friend was very good for most of the time she was here. DS1, on the other hand, struggled with sharing his toys, and although he played nicely for some of the time, had several meltdowns, which I had to manage. He is a very strong-willed child and I have struggled to gain a social circle since becoming a parent - we are only just starting to socialise now. His friend, in contrast, has been part of a strong social circle since she was born, and is a lot more used to give and take.
I'm really worried that friend's mum won't want to bring friend to play here again after today. I texted her afterwards to say how much we had enjoyed having them and apologising for DS1's moods. I haven't heard back though and naturally now I'm making a big deal of it all in my overactive brain. I keep wondering whether I didn't manage his behaviour well enough and maybe inadvertently pissed off friend's mum. She probably thinks he's a brat. I really want him to have friends and learn social skills and I know that practice is the only way to improve - but I'm worried now that I might have lost a friend! Help!
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Play date meltdowns - help!
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Failedspinster · 04/03/2015 22:16
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