welllllll...long story really, but in short, when we moved here I started to take my younger 2 sons to a local m&T group, and ms was at the time aproaching 3...he was a utter nightmare, rough, tumbly, boystrous, tantruming toddler and just a horror a lot of the time...my aproach in general, when I can stay calm enough is to warn ds and then do the countdown and follow up whatever i said....had a few fallouts about this with some other moms who ds "hurt" in the progress, was even told that my ms obviously has behaviriouls problems (somehting his nursery has lauhged at)....anyway, have, since he started his 5 paid sessions a week in Nursery in January, not taken him to said M&T...took him today though, he is almost 4 and now he is all in all well enough behaved, still boystrous but not basty etc...and obviously now some of those goody two shoes children are right lil horrors...just could not stop myself today but feeling smug about it, because I said all along it;s a phase and smacking and being afgressive will not change this....and even some of the gentler older Kids (well, ms age) are now getting naughtier ebcause they didn't go through this naughty phase at a younger age....now, I know I still have all this to come with ys, but it made me feel good that ms actually was the wellbehaved one today, after all the "crap" we got at the time!
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