I wonder if i could ask for your opinions??
My DD is just about 16mths old and is an absolute delight most of the time, she runs around waving and grinning at people saying "hello", she can play by herself well, has a great sense of humour BUT she is VERY determined.
Since she turned a year old and started walking she has been throwing some real tantrums, where she throws herself backwards then holds her breath, turns blue and on one occasion she passed out!!!! which i have since learned is completly normal usually these episodes involve doorways - she wants to go in out constantly.
We have a huge completly safe garden and have always let her have the run of that fairly independantly without many restrictions , maybe we have just made our own bed??
I try really hard to distract her, but when she has a goal in her mind she won't stop until she's achieved it.
We went to birthday party today for a group of 6 yr olds and was wonderfully behaved for the first hour - running around playing with the balloons and bubbles and being her normal smiley self, however when the food was served she beagan to loose interest and decided to start running out the room to play in the main cafe section, i let her for a while cos thought she was just too young to sit at the table, however when they all got down and i tried to take her back in she had a paddy, all the mothers kept giving me pitying looks . I think she did really well at 16mths old lasting the first hour, but am a bit worried that ia m letting her have her own way too much and causing these tantrums.
Any thoughts???or tips as i don't want a spoilt 2/3yr old that i can't take anywhere??
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Am i expecting too much for a 16 mth old????
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outinthesticksmummy · 08/10/2006 18:06
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