ls reassure me that 2nd babies turn out ok to, so upset & guilty I don't have any time to read or play with my 5 month old, I am still ebf & she sometimes has to cry for her feeds, she won't sleep unless she's in the sling or fed to sleep so she has no real nap times.
DD2 is 22 months & she won't play independently if she thinks I looking after DD1, she puts something in her mouth or starts jumping on furniture anything to get me away again. The hardest part is DD1 also needs someone lying with her till she falls asleep & then we sneak out this goes for her nap too & at the same time while I'm getting DD1 off to sleep DD2 is hysterically crying for me & I leave to see if she's ok & DD1 gets out of bed & whole thing starts againsad
I feel like such a rubbish mam & finding 2 under 2 so tough. Hubby is great but he is working crazy hours at the minute, we have no other support...
Also feel guilty as DD1 at the same age got so much attention, I was constantly reading to her, playing, talking whereas DD2 honestly gets no attention her basic needs are catered to & thats it.. I'm feel DD2 has got a rubbish start in life in comparison to her sister...
We get out everyday as its winter its the library,playgroups, tumble tots, monkey music & gymboree but I make sure we have a plan for everyday but I still find it so tough & feel DD2 is really missing out as I am dying to read & play with her I just honestly can't. I have tried playing & reading with the 2 but dd1 just takes all the toys off her & won't let me read. Advice pls & if you had 2 under 2 how did no 2 turn out???!!!x
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2 under 2, feel so upset & guilty I have no time or attention for DD2 due to older sister
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indiana7 · 25/11/2014 15:50
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