Hi
I am crying as I'm writing this my beautiful gentle little 21 month DD has morphed into an aggressive monster & I don't know what I have done wrong or how I can help.
We go to playgroup & she has started grabbing really aggressively, pushing hitting & the worst is she does is use both hands to pinch faces so severely she leaves a mark. I am her shadow in playgroup, I nearly always catch her in the nick of time & I always apologise to parents which in fairness are so sympathetic & comment on how good I am at anticipating her moods.
I don't know whats causing this her baby sister arrived 5 months ago & she is very good at her, it's just other children she lashes out at:( So I don't know if it's her sisters arrival but it doesn't seem to be as she is so good with her.
She has amazing vocabulary & speaks in full sentances. Before playgroup she tells me the rules no pushing, no grabbing, no pinching, play nicely with the toys & other boys & girls. She is getting her molars does this change behavious?
Please give me some advice I can't afford to put her in nursery, we have no family near by to support & we are fairly new to the area so havn't made many friends yet, the other moms in the group are very nice despite me being mummy to "that child" & I can't get to know them as I'm too busy with DD.
I feel quite sad that I'm starting to nearly disconnect with her, I can't bond with her like this she used to be so happy & friendly, used to play really well with other toddlers would never grab always share.
Please reassure me she will turn out ok!!!
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Please help, my 21 month old is a nightmare in playgroup
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Tsarina1 · 18/11/2014 13:25
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