Hi
I wonder if you can give me some good advice, you always have in the past so I hope you can help me with this one. My daughter (who is not speaking to e at the moment) had her first child two weeks ago, I was present at his birth and cut his cord and have been a big part of the pregnancy (went to the classes with her) and of course the birth. I already have two grandchildren with my son and his partner but of course have had a much closer part in my daughters pregnancy and birth than I did with his so I guess I do feel a quicker bond with the new little boy. My Daughter and her partner have planned to take him to the local club this weekend as they have a lot of friends and they would like to see him. I can understand they want to show him off but I think a baby less than 3 weeks old should not be in a crowded environment in a small family room when he has not had any immunisation yet, especially at this time of year with colds and flu etc etc about, I just don't think its worth the risk and they should wait until he is at least 2 months old and has had his immunisation. I'm afraid I voiced my fears to her and she has taken it very badly but I had to say it as I would never have forgiven myself if he did catch something and I had not voiced my fears to her, I tried to say it in a jovial way, saying I'm probably and over anxious nanny and she of course must do what she thinks best, but she hasn't taken it that way at all and thinks I am being 'negative' and its no different to taking him to the local clinic, which I'm afraid I don't agree with as the local clinic is a first mums one and will only have mums and there new babies, she will only be there for half an hour at the most, whereas at the family room in the club there will be lots of kids in and out, people peering at him, breathing on him and asking to hold him. Am I being old fashioned with this as it really worrys me, what do other young Mums think please. Have I done wrong in telling her that I don't think she should take him just yet? We are so very close and I love her to bits and would do anything for her so hate this 'bad feeling' that is happening because of what I have said. Help please!
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Over Anxious Grandmother newborn grandson out to club?
fultime · 05/10/2006 18:02
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