DS is 2.3yo and I've just started maternity leave, due in 10 days. Usually I leave the house before 7am and DP does the nursery drop off, and is generally the one who is around in the mornings.
Since I've been off work, I'm obviously around a lot more. Having said that, due to impending birth and general late pregnancy, I've stopped going into DS if he wakes in the night, and DP goes in now, and goes to get him in the morning when he wakes. DS is perfectly happy with this - although it took him a few days to get used to it. DP usually brings him into our bed, and we either have cuddles, or sometimes he goes back to sleep again for an hour or so which is great!
Last few days DS has become very clingy to me, and has started a lot of pushing DP away, with lots of "go away daddy" etc. Everything is "NO DADDY!" and "Mummy do it" etc.
I know that this is probably very normal, so we're not worried as such, and are trying to deal with any hitting/pushing etc separately from the "go away daddy", but I wondered if people ever say things like "that's not nice/that's upsetting to Daddy/Daddy is just trying to help" etc or if that makes it worse? As in it makes the toddler feel guilty/naughty for something that is in fact just normal development?
Should we try to teach him not to 'upset' DP or just deal with the pushing etc and ignore the other stuff?
Once baby comes, DP will be spending a lot of time with DS I guess, so it's either going to get better...or worse..!
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"go away daddy" phase - best way to handle?
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flipflopsonfifthavenue · 29/10/2014 08:58
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