Hi have posted in the past about concerns with DS1 who is nearly 8. He does not like to do anything new and shys away from it. For example he loves football has been going every Sat. morning with village team for about a year (he hated it at first!) loves it and looks forward to playing. I thought it would be a good idea for him to join some extra f/ball training to get his confidence up and have some more fun. I made sure there would be others from his class there too. Tonight he told me he didn't want to go as he felt really nervous about going somewhere new. I reassured him that this was understandable but if he does avoid things he fears he will not have the fun and will not know what he is missing. In essence he is like this with everything that is presented to him and ends up saying that he isn't going to go. I am always trying new ways to get him involved in activities and am sure that his reluntance stems from his lack of self confidence. Am I being unkind to be persistant or shall I carry on. He doesn't have many friends which does not seem to bother him ATMoment not that he would share with me. I just feel that if he gets into a cycle of avoidance because he is scared he will end up missing out on so much through life. Any advice would be welcome.
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Should I just leave him to get on with things....
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Flowertop · 02/10/2006 18:44
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