This is my first time posting on mumsnet so I'll introduce myself... I'm a shy young mum of three. I had my first daughter just before my 18th birthday. I am having some real problems at my daughters school.... My dd is in year 2 now but since she started none of the other mums in the playground talk to me. They all stand in groups in circles and do not even agknowledge me. I have a chip on my shoulder I guess as I'm a young mum. I always feel I have to work twice as hard to prove myself as the older mums and like I'm being constantly judged. It doesn't help that I look even younger than I am! As I felt more and more pushed out I started making my oh take my daughter to birthday parties as I was so nervous the other mums would ignore me the whole time (therefore, I now see, making things worse)
Well things have come to a head now as my daughter is saying she has no friends at school she plays alone and there is one 'queen bee' child who also happens to have a 'queen bee' mum who is telling the other girls not to play with my daughter. My dd is honestly a lovely but sensitive child so this is affecting her greatly. I feel this is partly my doing as the other children and parents socialize outside of school. I feel so guilty and worried about my baby! :'( she is becoming more withdrawn and crying before school and I hate it too! My oh and I have decided, even though I could really do without it right now (I have 2 jobs, a baby a toddler and a 6yr old an my partner works 60hrs a week!) to let her take a friend of her choice out every other weekend. Will this even help? I need some kind words to be honest and good advice. I have told the teachers how my dd is feeling and they have said they will keep an eye on her but I don't feel they realized how upsetting this is for my daughter. Sorry to ramble on and Tia for any advice
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Lkl8 · 15/09/2014 16:19
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