I teach secondary kids and one of my classes is a low ability Y9 class who are lovely. Yesterday one lad who is a bit of a rogue but really nice and obviously after a bit of attention a lot of the time was telling me at the end of the lesson about his auntie who had died last year. I won't go into the details for reasons that will become obvious in a minute. She died pretty tragically and even though he was fine when we were talking, a minute later I looked round and he was in floods of tears, really sobbing.
I took him into a quiet place to comfort him and he said he never cried at home because he didn't want to upset his parents. He then revealed that the story has been sold to one of the national weekly 'Real tragedies' and gossip magazines by his mum and the story appears this week. He was very cut up about it all and dreading other kids seeing this magazine over the weekend and asking him all about it.
I can't really comment about what the rest of the family must be going through - I'm sure they are all gutted about the loss of this family member, but FGS why sell your 'grief' story to a national magazine??! This lad is in a terrible state. I feel really and quite about these magazines and if I'm going to be honest, the need by some families to air their tragedies in public in this way. Why do it?
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Moomin · 22/09/2006 10:47
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