I've got a 25 month old DD and a 14 month old DD (11 month gap) and I'm finding it really hard lately as between them all they do is fight, whine and cry. They are both very strong willed and scrap over everything, me included. The typical scenario of one is happily playing with a toy and the other decides they want it. Except it's ALL the bleeding time. There always seems to be one or the other screaming / crying. They don't do logic at this age so everything is a big cry-fest drama.
I hear so many people say 'enjoy it as they grow up so fast' but what do people mean when they say this? It's not possible to enjoy it all surely. Are they just subtly admitting they didn't really enjoy it that much? I get on much better with 3+ year olds (lots of child experience) and feel guilty that I long for the day when were over the toddler years and the crying lessens. Activities that I plan are pointless, they last 2 minutes before the fighting starts or 'mine' is shouted by DD, or before they just abandon it and climb on me. I then feel guilty because I don't play with them much (I prefer reading, puzzles, flash cards etc) but want them to be each other's playmate and for me to do the more structured things. I love craft, baking & creative things and can't wait to do those but right now it's pointless. DD just cries when the baking goes in the oven
Encourage me, please? Surely the post-toddler pre-teen bit has much less drama?
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givemecaffeine21 · 28/08/2014 20:16
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