We're going to start TTC next year and one of the many, many things I am wondering about it how it will feel with my DH working away a lot.
At the moment he works about 6 weeks away then home for 2 weeks (although it can vary quite a bit). I can get very lonely at times even though I have a job I enjoy, a few good friends, family near by and some hobbies I still come home to an empty house and empty bed most nights. I often have to attend things on my own, leave on my own etc.. but that's the sort of gap only a partner can really fill.
There are plenty of benefits to him working away - he's progressing really well in a career he loves and there are so many opportunities in the coming years for him.. but at present it looks like he'll be working away the same, if not more, once we have children (especially if I choose to work less which I probably will).
So I guess what I'm looking for is some experiences of other mums in this situation - what are your positives and negatives of living this sort of set up? Do you have any advice or nuggets of wisdom?!
The mental image that's getting me through the panic is one day having a little family that will keep the love and laughter going in the house even when DH leaves for work.. currently I spend a bit too much time talking to the dogs!! :)
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How does it feel when your DH/DP works away?
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LilyMyOneAndOnly · 07/08/2014 23:06
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