DS just isn't into sport and neither are his friends. He has lots of friends, up to now they've tended to meet up at each others houses on "play-date" type arrangements and play video games all flipin' day, although of course they don't call it that
Now though they want to go out and "hang". I hate the thought of them loitering on street corners or making a nuisance of themselves at the playground but I'm at a loss for what else to suggest. They can do cinema/bowling/swimming etc but the cost adds up very quickly. That said, the cost of hanging out seems quite high - they always seem to have cash for fast food etc.
So, I have a few issues. I don't want him to be a yoof who has nothing better to do than hang round the streets, I don't have bottomless pockets and I don't really want what I do have to be spent on junk food. I'd rather they were outside than on the X-box all day though.
He will be going to a couple of nature club type things and there's an outdoor activity that he goes to with Dh that will fill a couple of days but what "should" he be doing with his friends? What am I missing?
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What are your non-sporty 13 yo boys going to do all summer?
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Frontier · 21/07/2014 20:13
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