In short, my sister has accused my dad who is not her dad of sexual abuse when she was a child. We were both sexually abused by our brother. He is out of our lives/lives in another country but we always agreed never to tell our mum who would be too upset. Me and my sister are not close. My dad DID NOT abuse me. She is saying that her counsellor is going to issue an "investigation" into my dads relationship with my 4 year old. I havent heard anything in whats been nearly a week. My dad has showed no signs he has heard anything? My mind is doing somersaults constantly I cant eat/sleep/function. The samaritans although good at listening dont offer advice. Ive rang numerous counselling sevcies but not got any replies. Im going insane waiting for social services? Police? To turn up on my doorstep. I am dreading what they are going to put my daughter through. I am 31 weeks pregnant and terrified and alone. I have NO local support whatsoever (except my husband but I mean out of the immidiate turmoil) I am srruggling now to look after myself I feel sick. My mum now knows and phoned me yesterday...she hates my dad anyway they were divorced when I was 9. I dont have any worries about my daughter she seems normal/happy/healthy she loves her grandad? She has never said anything to concern me or behaved like she doesnt like him? Im so confused so messed up and so very very alone and scared.
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