Im looking for some peace of mind or an eye opener.
I live in lovely new built maisonette, it has a communal garden that leads off the living room. ive lived in the area 14yr this august. moving 3 times in that space, yet stayed in the area - literally across the road every time!
so, ive been looking to exchange for a house so kids and I can have our own private space/garden. now an exchange has become available and im having doubts as to wether its for the best?
its far enough to have to change schools etc.
my thoughts are conflicting and my brain is going into meltdown. the kids are happy here (I think?) ive not had no complaint from them. they go out into the communal garden and has friends on tap. ....
the down side is, their kids take your kids stuff, there can be the odd argument/debate over kids/toys... the other kids knock on the back door or evening just open it! ive had polite words with the parents but kids don't listen. (I must add here that I have mental health issues and dont handle confrontation well)
don't have privacy, kids walk into your patio or linger around. I might just be a personal thing as it doesn't bother the other neighbours? must be me?
so for me, moving would remove all these 'niggles' plus dd (3.5yrs) keeps asking for a ''trampoline garden'' BUT .... BUT then I fear I will get this private garden - with trampoline and they will have no one to enjoy it with? unlike what they have now? just don't know whats for the best????
there are other pro and cons that I can include if anyone wants to talk to me about it? if I put it all in opening post it would be too long
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can i have some opinions on moving with kids
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mouses · 14/03/2014 12:34
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